iamGUCCI

"when is your boyfriend going to ORD?"

"in 5 years' time. cause he wanted to sign on."

"why is he so stupid?!?!"

"sign on means no life can."

"sign on means no future you know?"

"sign on is the stupidest thing to do."

"as the girlfriend, why did you discuss your views with him? why didn't you discourage him?"

i'm getting frustrated with more and more people telling me all this.

with more and more reasons and views of him signing on.

i DID tell him about my views.

i DID discourage him, because he need to go overseas out of a sudden.

of cause i won't let him sign on.

i told him to make his own decision without considering about me.

AND.

thia is what he wants.

that is what he thinks it's right for him now.

ya. true that he didn't think about his future 5 years later.

some people may think that it's stupid of one making decisions without considering the other half.

but i made a mistake from the previous relationship.

i gave up taking part in my last dance concert in TP, because i took the other half's feelings  into considersation.

till now, i still regretted making that decision.

because i wanted to dance in the public, representing TP for the last time. so badly.

shouldn't we learn to respect other's decisions?

they may have make a wrong decision, but at least they learn from their mistakes.

they won't blame me for choosing the wrong thing.

they may ask for advice, but they have had to make their own choice.

i can't be helping them to do that.

all i can is giving me my opinion.

i mean, since they asked me for that.

at times, i won't be the one who is correct.

Humans make mistakes, remember?